TOPSoccer Buddy – The Secret Sauce
WE ARE YOUTH SOCCER
What is a TOPSoccer Buddy
- Friend
- Protector (safety)
- Training partner
- Behavior model
- Facilitator/mentor
- Liaison (to parents, coaches, peers)
Role of Buddies
- Looks out for the safety of player
- Demonstrates desired skill, activity
- Encourages athletes and celebrates success
- Reinforces coaching points (technical, tactical)
- Encourages decision-making
- Provides stability in chaotic environment
Role of Buddy For Players With…
Non-Physical Disabilities
- Explain activities in 1-2 step sequences
- Allow for more time to react, respond
- Be alert for cues of over-stimulation (hands on ears, flapping hands, etc.)
- Learn warning signs and de-escalate (remove from area, calming words and manners)
- Don’t take it personally if player has a bad day
Physical Disabilities
- Use voice, hands and arms to guide player
- Create a safety zone for all players
- Provide balance and stability
- May need multiple Buddies
Coach-Buddy Interactions
- Prepare Buddies before session
- Provide lesson plan
- Give reminders for safety, support
- Discuss special player situations, behaviors
- Engage Buddies throughout session
- Reinforce positive behaviors (praise in public)
- Offer suggestions for improvement (criticize in private)
- Debrief Buddies after session – short and sweet
- Problems, successes
- Ideas for next week